One of the things for which I am most grateful is that there is usually not just one path to success or happiness. We have multiple intelligences, resources, team mates, technology. . .the list goes on and on. . .that allow us options. I know that it is true for me that I am not at my best when I am not considering my options; conversely, I feel good about what I do when I consider multiple choices for the solution of one challenge.
For the purpose of getting out of a narrow head space, here are some choices to consider.
1. You can always quit. I personally have used this on at least two occasions. It is not my preferred option, but I believe we should always have it in our hip pocket. While it can be a frightening thought, it can also be a liberating thought. . . and that liberation in itself may bring new light to the challenge one is facing.
2. You can go have a conversation. Maybe the person you are going to talk to can (minimally) provide comfort or (ideally) provide a different way of looking at the challenge you are considering. Maybe they've been there and done that; experience is an invaluable option to consider.
3. What is your competition doing? Much as we prefer to think that we are superior to our competition, you may find "what-to-do" or "what-not-to-do" when examining those you face. This can provide you with several new ways of looking at what you need to do today and tomorrow.
4. What if you do the exact opposite of what you are considering? Yes, it's a little bit of a mind game, but it allows you to turn the problem around - and often when you are looking at a problem from a different perspective, you can arrive at a better solution.
5. Maybe you should wait. This is not the same as procrastination - which is putting off that which needs to be done. Sometimes waiting allows you to see added dimensions to the challenge; often waiting allows you to collect more information. Always. . .waiting should provide you with time to reconsider your prime solution and evaluate whether it is the best solution.
6. Technology? We don't even know what we don't know. Do a little research. Ask your local techie - find ways through technology to simplify.
7. What would so-and-so say? You know someone who's a great finance person? What would they say about the challenge you face? What would an engineer say? What would your CEO say?
What would your mother say? Play the different personalities and voices through your head and you will have more choices to consider.
I have found personal comfort that there is seldom just one way. . .choices not only lead you to the best solution, but make you smarter.
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