Friday, March 16, 2018

Grey matter on grey matters. . .

How easy it seems to be  able to see matters in the simplistic terms of either black or white.

Here's what strikes me;  black and white photography is really not about those two extremes - but it is the shades of grey that provide the true picture.   It is not simply the black or simply the white. . .but it is the complications in between that make it so rewarding.

I believe the same is true in life and work. . .it is not the "yes" and "no" of seeming black and white decision making. . .it is understanding the complexity, the emotional comprehension, the intellect utilized that makes the greys of work and life so rewarding.

Face it. . .it is easy to be dogmatic.  It is reassuring even to claim  that things are either this way or that.        It doesn't really require any emotional commitment to the subject at hand. . .it eschews inquiry or multi-dimensional thought.

Hercule Poirot, Agatha Christie's somewhat persnickety sleuth, often referred to the little grey cells:  using one's brain.   Often I find that in popular culture we neglect using our own grey matter, choosing instead for the easy way out - the quick flight to either black or white.

Ultimately, however, one does not win this way.      We win through inquiry.   We win by being willing to be wrong - and then figuring out what it takes to be right.   We win through the utilization of emotional intelligence.  We win by using our brain. . .and heart.

Black and white thinking really does very little of this - it's vend-a-decision - and it's a waste.  Utilizing the resources we've been given to be thoughtful, to be strong. . .that is what allows us to explore the greys of an issue.    And that is what enables us to bring a decision to life.

"It is the brain, the little grey cells on which one must rely.  One must seek the truth within - not without."  - Hercule Poirot

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