Consider: it's not generally thought of as a power word. Then there are its derivatives: considerate, consideration. It's often thought of as a more polite word. If you are considerate - then you are nice. And there's nothing wrong with nice
I would argue that in its truest sense, however, it is a very powerful word that enables us to do more than we thought possible.
Look it up: "Thinking carefully about (something), typically before making a decision."
Often we fall prey to a game show mentality: whoever slaps the buzzer first and rattles off the right answer wins. Life, and work, however, are not quiz shows. The questions we face on a daily basis are often more complicated than just having one answer: there are considerations.
If I make this decision - what is my next move? Am I thinking about this decision from the point of view of those who will be impacted? Even though this seems like the right decision, what have I not considered that could be a better decision for all? Does this decision ring true to promises that I have made? Is this decision congruent with decisions that I've made previously and that I will make in the future?
Have I looked at the decision points from different points of view?
All of a sudden, giving consideration, or being considerate becomes much more than a politeness or a nicety. It becomes a necessity. It is a pathway to wisdom. It enables us to make smarter decisions.
Ringing the buzzer first and rattling off what we think may be the right answer doesn't win.
Well-considered answers win.
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